Kinky Stuff You Will Like: Kinky Boys Podcast
Here at How to Kill a Superhero we like all media that talk about BDSM in a fun and smart way. Yes, that’s what we look for. It’s easy to find titillating images if you just set up a Tumblr account, but it’s harder to find people that know how to articulate what makes kink so fun and meaningful for people.
Today we’d like to recommend that you listen to the new kid on the podcasting block, Kinky Boys Podcast. Your host Craig is intelligent, shrewd, but also very focused on what makes all sorts of BDSM and kinky topics hot. If you like British accents, then you better go download it right away.
Kinky Boys Podcast is a great place to check out talks about superhero fetish. In fact, Craig interviewed me about How to Kill a Superhero book series recently on his episode titled Pablo Greene. You can listen to all other episodes on Stitcher, Itunes, and
Here’s how Craig describes the show:
Stated in early 2015, The kinkyboys podcast is show that looks to educate and inform without stripping out the inherent fun in the endless gamut of sexual experiences. Fun informative and gets to both the throbbing heart as well as the complex psychology of kinks.
And a little bit more about Craig:
Craig is a rare thing; an English bootblack. Self-taught and currently the bootblack for the London leather social. He has always had a fascination with human sexuality especially the psychology of fetishes which lead him to become Current main host of the kinkyboys podcast. He likes his men how he likes his books: well-read and leather bound.
Q&A with Director Kristofer Weston: Bound Jocks, Tights and Wrestling Videos
Today we are excited to bring you a very special Q&A between author Pablo Greene and Kristofer Weston, an accomplished erotic filmmaker who had directed films for both Colt and his own Bound Jocks. Kristofer Weston’s roots in the BDSM community run deep, and you’ll be able to see him in person at IML 2015 in Chicago this May. We also have included several erotic images from his shoots in this piece. Be sure to visit him at The Kristofer Weston blog, Colt, and at Bound Jocks.
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Pablo Greene: Kristofer, you have a long history in the world of BDSM adult video and entertainment. You got your start at Zeus studios, one of my favorite video makers of all time. Zeus hit its stride at the peak of the video era, before the rise of the Internet and digital distribution. Can you talk about how you became involved with the company, and what that job was like for you?
Kristofer Weston: Well actually I was just a horny teenager who jerked off to bondage porn and Drummer Magazine on a regular basis. I went to college at Arizona State and would drive to Los Angeles on the weekends for fun. I answered an ad in Frontiers Magazine for a wrestling company called BG and started doing wrestling videos for them to earn extra cash for college. The owner introduced me to Mikal Bales (at Zeus Video), who shot me for a session and I soon became a regular model for them. I would have done it for free because I was so horny. The money was just an extra bonus.
PG: For many kinksters, the love for bondage and SM starts early in life. What were your first fantasies like, and how did you eventually make them a reality in your own development as a young man?
KF: I’ve always been aroused by bondage. My favorite show since I was 10 was the Wild Wild West and I would watch it every Saturday just waiting for Robert Conrad to get captured and stripped of his shirt in those skin tight pants! I would fantasize about being tied up just like that and struggle to escape.
PG: Do you recall your first bondage experience? If so, what was that like?
KF: I think it was with a guy who locked me in handcuffs and that made me rock hard. Most of my good bondage experiences happened on camera. though. Those bondage shoots made me seek out the really good players off camera.
PG: You eventually moved on to start your own business and video companies. Tell us about that trajectory.
KF: Well after college I went to Europe for a trip and ended up meeting the owner of RoB Amsterdam. They had just bought Drummer Magazine and wanted to start RoB San Francisco. They hired me to manage the store and one of their biggest sources of income was selling S/M VHS porn. Being a content expert myself, the customers quickly learned to rely on my recommendations on what to buy. Two years later, I started my own S/M company. MASTA Entertainment, and started distributing videos myself. This led to me directing my own movies, which lead to me directing for Falcon Studios, and then later on at COLT Studio Group, where I am now. Five years ago I also started the site Boundjocks.com, which is where I really get to play out my fantasies with gorgeous models!
PG: Can you talk about some of the projects you have worked on for Colt? What do you feel have been some of your favorite achievements in those films and videos?
KF: I love directing for COLT Studio Group. The men are men, big slabs of beef! I’ve been very fortunate to work for such an iconic company and very masculine muscular men,. My favorite projects have been when I can interject some kink into the mix like Muscles in Leather, Uniform Men, Paradise Found, LeatherBound, and Stud Ranch to name a few…
PG: What do you think it is about wrestling and bondage that tends to mix together so well?
KF: I think wrestling is a form of bondage where one man pins the other so he can’t move. He just uses his body instead of rope. This is in some ways even more erotic as what is keeping you in place in a muscle and sweat right in your face. What is not to like?
PG: Here at How to Kill a Superhero we believe superhero fetish and bondage go together like pizza and beer. What's your relationship to superheroes in your own sexual fantasies?
KF: I think my favorite was Spider-Man. I liked seeing that bulge in his blue tights and always wanted to hog tie him with a rope chastity cage around the bulge so his cock was trapped in his tights and then rip his mask off!
PG: Your current venture, Bound Jocks features very attractive models in tight bondage with high production values. Tell us how that brand has evolved for you since you launched it.
KF: Bound jocks is really a labor of love for me. We started it using sexy models that we used in our productions that hadn’t been tied up before (but were kind of curious). After the site took off, I started getting lots of requests from models begging me to get tied up. I think the clean white room and brightly colored rope also adds to a fun experience and is less scary for the model. I like to call it “bondage candy”.
PG: Are there any bondage shoots you won't shoot? Why?
KF: Hmmm, not sure – we definitely wouldn’t shoot anything that was against the models will so I guess that is where the line is drawn…
PG: Can you talk about your artistic choices for gear and clothing in your shoots?
KF: It matters to us a lot, since superhero and spandex fetish is directly related to clothing. I actually prefer a man trussed up in clothes or gear of some sort over being naked. I like to see the bulge in the crotch, especially spandex, which is why wrestling singlets are so sexy. In our early days, Mr. S Leather actually was very good to us, and they offered to send us the newest styles in jockstraps and gear, which has given Bound Jocks its colorful and sporty look. We also like to feature other high quality gear (such as yours) to help out the fetish community we all share.
PG: You have been able to make a living as a director and business person in adult video. What are the biggest challenges of thriving in this industry?
KF: I think to maintain longevity you really have to put out a premium product people can trust. I know people trust and know the COLT Studio Group brand for over 45 years, but now I think they see that Boundjocks.com is here to stay and will keep giving them high quality scenes, as well.
PG: When potential models approach you to be in Bound Jocks videos, what do you look for?
KF: Face, body, dick, desire…in that order.
PG: Safety during bondage and SM scenes is very important. What are some general tips you can share that help you navigate scenes with your shoots?
KF: Always start with a discussion of limits, find out how far can you go with a person you are tying up. Then don’t keep them tied up too long especially in stress positions. I rarely keep a model tied up over 20-25 minutes. Keep a pair of safety shears nearby in case you have to cut someone out quickly. Make sure the person stretches and hydrates beforehand and keep an eye on blood flow through their limbs.
PG: What superhero would you put in bondage, and what would you do to them?
KF: Spider Man and maybe the Flash – I’m a sucker for red tights. Plus The Flash has an open-faced mask, so I could use his mouth once I had him spread eagled on his back. I’d put electrical pads on his balls and crank up the juice until he complied with my every demand.
PG: Are you yourself a rope top? Do you ever bottom? Tell us more about that.
KF: I am actually a true 50/50 – I get off on both. I get into a very relaxed and horny state when I am bound and I get into a very devious and horny state when I am binding someone else. It’s really a win-win. I’m just not a big fan of passive bottoms. If I go through the work of tying you up, I want to hear you moan and see you squirm – a lot!
PG: What are your thoughts on the rise of digital video and the way in which it has made porn accessible on devices like smartphones and tablets?
KF: I really think mobile devices are the future and the way we will consume porn in the future which is why I’m so excited about our new site. You can now download and view on any device you have seamlessly. I really think COLT studio Group and BoundJocks are ahead of the curve with these new sites!
PG: What do you consider erotic for you, on a personal level?
KF: Oh I get turned on by almost everything chains, rope, and leather. As long as someone is restrained and giving up power it’s a turn on for me. I love a good master/slave dynamic – I like dark dungeon scenarios – I like the locker room jock’s first time – and now I am exploring puppy play which is a whole new world for me.
PG: What is next in your directorial life? What projects lie ahead?
KF: I will keep doing the BoundJocks scenes of course every month and I am starting to plan a big COLT movie to shoot this spring with a Cowboy theme.
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Classic Superhero Fetish: Eye of the Cyclone’s Dynolad in 'Power Drain'
First let me say how I found Eye of the Cyclone and how it changed my life. It was the spring of 2010, and I was hanging out on the fetish site spandexguys.com. I had been looking for something new, something fresh, something more suited to me. I was twenty-four years old at the time and suffering from depression. As a result, I was having trouble finding outlets for my fetish. Nothing gave me pleasure, nothing made me happy, and everything was boring.
One day, I saw an ad for a gay superhero comic website called Eye of the Cyclone. I clicked through and landed on it. And it was exactly what I wanted. The previews were perfect and everything I had imagined: hot men in skintight superhero suits ready for action. Villains captured them and put the studs on display, and then ripped their super suits right off their bodies. On occasion, they would wrestle, pro-style. The wrestling maybe wasn’t interesting to me, but the superheroes were the figures of my dreams.
I had never paid for a site membership before and nervously put in my payment info. That week I had started my summer job, and when I had free time, I spent every hour I could on the site. Back then, my internet connection was dial-up, so it was really slow. It came to me at a rough time in life, and it came to me at the perfect time. All summer long, Eye of the Cyclone was my refuge.
I got to know the characters well. My top five are the original Flex, Supersonic, The Falcon and The Interceptor and the new Power Pecs. Out of my love for superhero fetish and the desire to walk down memory lane, I plan to relive and review some of my favorite past stories from EOTC by writing about some of my most beloved stories on the site.
Today I want to go back in time to one of the most classic stories on EOTC: The first story I read after getting my membership, featuring Dynolad in Power Drain. Dynolad a superhero born from a freak cycling accident can now harness and contain electric power.
The episode begins with a nude Dynolad, who also goes by the alter ego Rick Adams, regenerating his electrical power within a special chamber. Before he is at full capacity, he is called to duty as the evil Cobra (a favorite villain of mine) begins draining Central City’s power. Most of the action of EOTC takes place in Central City, a hub for supermales. I kinda wanna move there.
The nude hero generates his suit out of thin air and the rest of part one consists of Dynolad dressing himself. This kind of disrobing happens often in EOTC stories. I will never complain about this.
The next six parts involve Dynolad attempting to stop Cobra’s plan both by defeating the machine Cobra has set up to drain the city and by facing Cobra himself. I won’t give spoilers, but will say that we see Dynolad a few more times in other EOTC adventures. For my first outing with EOTC I was quick to learn not to hold onto favorite models or characters too close (especially favorite models), as our good guys tend to see their ends at the conclusion of the story; not always but usually. It brings up an idea that is valued and eroticized in superhero fetish: the defeat of the hero. Much in the same way we love to see a Hollywood star fall or flawed sports hero fail, we like to see good guys stumble. From a narrative standpoint it makes them human, but from a sexual standpoint, I think it makes them more passive and submissive. Someone so strong and powerful is suddenly at the will of others. I could never take on a hero physically or sexually, but at his weakest… Be it bondage or just general loss, even loss of life, to see the hero in failure, is kind of a turn on. Moreover, seeing their once pristine super suits torn to rags and their muscular bodies weakened is the stuff of pure fetish.
One of the reasons I love Dynolad is that he looks like a english professor I had back in university who I had a major crush on at the time. I ran into him outside of class twice and got all flustered talking to him. I was such a shy dork. But he still remembers me, clearly as well, years later. Another thing I like about Dynolad is that he doesn’t wear a mask. I like it when I can see a superhero’s face, at least some of it. That said, many fans have argued that the good guy needs to win, especially since this is a common trope in the superhero genre. We also like underdogs and heroes fighting for the little guys. These men have powers and use them for good– so why should, or how could they fail? In the case of Dynolad (spoiler alert) it is sacrifice that is his downfall; Dynolad uses his power to conduct electricty to overpower the Cobra’s machine, dying in the process… or so we think. This allows for an interesting second chapter.
Seeing Dynolad’s fit body defeated, his suit torn, is a giant turn on. He’s even strapped to the Cobra’s electricity draining machine, which creates a bondage situation as well. Being bound in spandex and then further bound to a machine is one of my biggest fantasies. Having a spandex clad villain doing this to me is erotic as well; spandex men doing bad things to other spandex clad men until one of them is defeated allows for erotica. Finally the fantasy has come true: the spandex heroes and villains of the comics have come to life. Dynolad makes a great introduction to the world of EOTC and will always be a favorite of mine.
Who is this comic for?
- Fans of spandex and lycra
- Comic fans
- Wrestling aficionados
- Submission fetishists
Duration: Seven chapters make up this story, however length varies. Most are are longer.
- There are hardly any clips on the site. Most stories are photo comics using models in costume.
Cost: 8.90 UKP/ month or 19.60 UKP/3 months
Final word: Recommended
Real Stories of Superhero Fetish: Captain Spandex
The thrill of anonymity; the ego-boost of exhibitionism; the look and feel of hard muscle under silky, stretchy material; the fantasy of transformation and power that comes with roleplay: Superheroes have always been a source of immense excitement for me, but it’s very difficult to trace my superhero fetish back to its roots. In some ways, I feel it’s always been with me.
Captain Spandex as Clark/Kal-El
As far back as I can remember, I was devouring Spider-Man and Superman comics, swooning over reruns of the classic Batman TV series, and waking up early every Saturday to watch the adventures of any superhero cartoon within reach. Seeing costumed heroes on the pages of comics, or in animated form, was a thrill. Seeing those same heroes in the flesh, on a TV or movie screen was an obsession.
Once in a while, as I channel-surfed, I would catch Nicholas Hammond as The Amazing Spider-Man, or Michael Gray as Shazam. The stories were always enjoyable, but when Adam West in the Batman TV series or Christopher Reeve in Richard Donner’s film Superman were on-screen in costume, my focus was absolute — I’d watch the hero’s body, comic-made-flesh, as muscles and power radiated under spandex and cape. There was something different about those two that stood out above the rest: they were icons of confidence and power that I worshipped because I felt these were things I lacked in a childhood tainted by alcoholism and abuse. Seeing Batman and Superman come to life meant that they were real in some way, and that their abilities (realistically possible or not) were something I could adopt for myself as a means of escape.
The Captain at rest
I always wanted to be Spider-Man or Superman for Halloween, and once in a while my parents would indulge me. One day, around the age of eight, my siblings and I joined some other kids at our baby-sitter’s place. One of the other kids had come as Batman, in what I (inaccurately) remember as the most perfect reproduction of Adam West’s costume, and I couldn’t take my eyes off him. Of course, when you have Batman in your backyard, you are obligated to play Good Guys Vs. Bad Guys. That day, I let Batman defeat my pathetic bank-robber of a villain. And perhaps, I gave in a little too easily when Batman pinned me to the ground and held me there. At that age it was just fantasy, but I loved it nonetheless.
I maintained a sometimes-secret obsession with Superman and Spider-Man all through my childhood and teen years, complementing old fantasies with new ones about being treated with super soldier serum, finding Green Lantern’s power ring, or being given Shazam’s powers by a benevolent old man. There weren’t many outlets to explore the obsession, but I tried. How many other pre-teen boys snuck out of the house to see Superman IV in theatres just because the bad guy wore gold tights?
In high school, my childhood fantasies transitioned to sexual awakening at the same time as the late-80s fad of spandex in men’s locker rooms and sports fields spread throughout the continent. I had a crush on a boy in my class that was ramped up to epic proportions when he began to wear long spandex shorts in gym class — the plain black kind, with golden yellow panels on the outside of the legs. I secretly obsessed over him when he wore them and would take the locker next to him hoping that our bodies would accidentally touch. I asked my mom if I could have some of the same kind of shorts, but she said they were for girls. I was left wondering how they felt to wear, and my fantasy side wondered if they gave him extra athletic power… not unlike the alien suit worn by Ralph Hinkley on “Greatest American Hero”.
Once I had linked my school crush with spandex and superheroes, my fate was set. It was sealed when I masturbated for the first time around the age of 14. During that first time, I was overcome by the thrill of wearing a pair of cycling shorts I had secretly bought at a local thrift shop and kept hidden from my mom.
When I began to live on my own in university, I was free to explore my fetish at will. In addition to adopting a steady gym habit -- look good in spandex was always my mantra -- I began to collect pieces of lycra-based athletic apparel. I bought shorts, shirts, wrestling singlets, and a dive skin. By this time I had discovered a number of great communities on the Internet — gearfetish.com and spandex-party.com among them — where other men shared pics of themselves in gear, connected about their fetishes and fantasies, and found kinship with people like me, who until then had never imagined anyone else shared my kinks. My fetishes hadn’t been kept secret from my lovers up until that time, but none of them ever really embraced them; they’d allow online connections with other members of the community, but never fully-accepted coming home to someone lounging on the couch in full-body lycra. I remember a day when my ex suddenly stopped as he came down the hallway and spotted me in gear: “that’s going to take some getting used to,” he said. It was only through connecting with other people from Internet sites devoted to my fetishes that I began to assert my hero complex as a healthy and important aspect of my sex life.
As progress from my exercise regimen increased, so did my confidence. I began to use exercise as an excuse to wear spandex in public, taking up running and cycling and almost any other activity that provided an excuse to wear my favorite pieces of clothing. All of these items were cherished, but were never really close to what I really wanted — a Superman costume of my own. Many years later, once I graduated and started working a steady job, my regular habit of trolling eBay for cheap spandex revealed a decent Superman costume that someone was selling. I didn’t hesitate to bid, and I won the item. A few weeks later, I raced home from work and suited up for the first time, shaking with extreme excitement as I literally transformed into the same hero I’d idolized growing up. Looking in the mirror, I felt invincible, confident and irresistibly sexy. Within days I was addicted to the thrill of being Superman, and shared that thrill by adding superhero pics of myself to my online profiles.
Captain Spandex in iconic spider skin
People liked my spandex and superhero pics, which made me post more, which attracted more attention and views. In turn, I was encouraged to post more explicit pictures, merging my sexuality with every possible combination of gear that I owned, and occasionally adding props such as heavy chains. All of this activity in the online community led to longstanding friendships and online roleplays, live one-to-one webcam sessions, and more. I was loving it, and I began to make a bucket list of other costumes I wanted: Spider-Man, Shazam, Flash, Green Lantern, Captain Canuck, Cyclops, Wolverine… any hero that dressed in head-to-toe spandex became a hero whose skin I wanted to inhabit. I began to call Halloween my Annual Spandex Festival, and my friends got used to seeing me out in public as Superman, Spider-Man, or Wolverine. During these outings I discovered the pure joy of being a masked crusader in public. Anonymity freed me from feeling judged, and comments from strangers fueled my addiction even more. (“Not many guys could pull off Superman. You totally do.”). These days, comic conventions provide additional opportunities to suit up as a hero for a day, and as excuses to cross additional heroes off my costume list. I do it whenever I can. I most recently donned my really-good Spidey suit to a big comic expo in my hometown and had the time of my life. It justified working on two new Spidey-variant suits to wear to future cons.
One of the advantages of being a gearfetish.com member is the exposure to all kinds of other fetishes and kinks. Throughout my late 20s, my interest in spandex, superheroes, and muscle grew to encompass bondage, dominance, submission, leather, and more. My assertiveness about my own online persona, a growing expansion of leather-only events into “all-fetish” events, as well as my willingness to try new things, eventually connected my alter-ego and online handle Captain Spandex with a leather fetishist and kinkster that I met on recon.com. Our one night stand — involving latex and superhero gear, of course — soon blossomed into something more significant, and almost four years later the two of us are happily married and celebrating everything about each others’ kinks and fetishes.
That brings us to the current day, where Captain Spandex continues to post to Tumblr, connect with other heroes online, and thrives as a husband whose sexual adventures often include spandex, hero gear, dominating (most of the time), or being submissive (occasionally), and bondage. The good Captain’s super-strength is derived from his celebration of muscle, exhibitionism, and brightly-colored spandex in all its forms. My superhero alter-ego and his kinks do not define me, but they are deeply ingrained and kept close to the surface — skin-tight and oh-so-deliciously concealed under a business-like demeanour. My body thrums with the heartbeat of a hero. As far as Captain Spandex is concerned, real heroes still wear tights.
Editor's note: We are proud to introduce Captain Spandex, and active community member and ongoing contributor to How to Kill a Superhero. You can follow Captain Spandex on Tumblr. Want to share your own story of superhero fetish? Please email your entry to au@howtokillasuperhero.net and write "Guest Blogger" in the subject.
The Role of Spandex in Superhero Fetish
For each of us, as we have seen, the base of our fetish is something totally different and for some it is more than spandex: neoprene, rubber, leather, and for others, sports gear. Our fetish is something personal. For me it was a jock thing, but also a superhero thing. For both, it was the freedom to wear these items of clothing so freely, so publicly and be completely blasé about it. Athletes especially get me: they walk around in spandex like it is nothing at all. It means the world to me, and jocks drive me nuts!
Spandex, Lycra or elastane is a synthetic fiber known for its exceptional elasticity. It is stronger and more durable than natural rubber. It is a polyester-polyurethane copolymer that was invented in 1958 by chemist Joseph Shivers at DuPont's Benger Laboratory in Waynesboro, Virginia. The word spandex comes from the word “expands”.
The very birth of spandex is something otherworldly, cooked up in the lab around World War II like a science experiment. It's a direct result of the industrial age as synthetic fibers became more widely used for clothing. What always surprised me about the material is that many comic-book heroes predate that creation of spandex. Prior to that a cotton or wool blend was drawn on heroes and villains (or worn on TV and film versions), and it just doesn’t do the same job. The look is all wrong. But then spandex appears in the visual consciousness of the 20th century: Now the superhero costume makes sense" skintight and allowing all their muscles to be on full display, spandex becomes a thin shield for the naked male body. It is all that is keeping the body from being fully displayed.
Spandex fetishism is a fetishistic attraction to people wearing form fitting stretch fabrics or to the wearing of items of clothing made of such material. Spandex garments are often worn by swimmers, ballet dancers, wrestlers, rowers, cyclists, contortionists and circus performers, and spandex fetishists may incorporate fantasies about these activities into their particular fetish. One reason why spandex and other tight fabrics may be fetishized is that the garment forms a "second skin", acting as a surrogate for the wearer's own skin. Wearers of skin-tight nylon and cotton spandex garments can appear naked or coated in a shiny or matte substance like paint. The tightness of the garments may also be seen as sexual bondage. Another reason is that nylon-spandex fabric (preferred by many spandex fetishist) is often produced with a very smooth and silk-like finish, which lends a tactile dimension to the fetish - as well as a visual one. The pressure of tight garments against the genitals can become quite sensual.
What’s interesting is that while the definition mentions many of the jocks that wear spandex, including circus performers, but no mention of superheroes. True, we may be a niche within the fetish market, but nonetheless, spandex and superheroes walk hand in hand. Yet with the advent of Under Armour (God loves gays or he would have never given us Under Armour) it made spandex mainstream at the same time that Hollywood was taking spandex away from the superhero.
PHOTO GALLERY: The Role of Spandex in Superhero Fetish
Spider-Man and Superman still sport spandex (The Amazing Spider-Man was kind enough to make reference to it) but for the most part (and I blame the X-Men films for this) leather has replaced spandex. Nothing against leather, but looking at The CW’s Flash costume, I can tell you that you can’t run in leather. Of course, superheroes are a fantasy, so technically, they can do whatever their creators say they can do. But, luckily there is still hope: after many were up in arms about the new Fantastic Four trailer making no mention of the classic Fantastic Four suits, the sexy Miles Teller has informed us otherwise.
Going back to the Wikipedia entry, we see that rubber, neoprene, leather and spandex in particular for our case are something that as the definition explains, leads itself, in its very essence to bondage. One-piece suits are something that traps the body; we become a slave to clothing, something we should be able to control. It gives power to an inanimate object yet that power is kinda liberating. Many of us probably agree that we feel at our best when we are in our gear. I know for me, I feel more like a man trapped in a wetsuit or in spandex than any other time. The sensation of my physical body being contained and controlled by a mass-produced, lifeless object is such a turn on. Often seeing the empty shell of a suit or tights is the bigger arousal; the anticipation that it will house a body and contain it… add in the superhero cosplay complex, and it becomes even more interesting.
If only that were an actual line...
The idea of the hero and the idea of the alter ego entering that suit to become something new. Even in the real world the ideal of cosplay is to become your favorite hero via costume. Cosplayers have often said that this is a childhood fantasy, becoming the characters they looked up to and wanted to be in their youth. Like many of us in our teenage years, as puberty hit, we realized we didn’t just want to be them, but be with them. Cosplay becomes a space where people with a superhero fetish can see their heroes as living adults; but also as sexual beings.
While I’m all for the recent movement of cosplay is not consent as a way to create safe spaces for cosplayers at cons, I do feel that cosplay works as a visual medium. Like any visual medium it calls upon being looked at; in this case we are looking at people. It requires a gaze. The issue of objectification is problematic, but in truth anytime we post something online the point is that it is going to be looked at. Cosplay adds another dimension: we already look at the heroes in comic and here they are in the flesh. The mind can run wild with what to do with these characters and cosplay roleplay allows us to bring fantasy into reality and meld the two together.
Strange beginnings create a strange fetish; fictional characters wearing an artificial skin imbeds into our fantasies and now as grown men we wish to fulfill the fantasy. Like Roland, we too take a journey to discovery, to finding the limits of our fetish and fantasy as well as the extensions – will it stretch as far as the very fabric we love and adore? My vain attempt to create a definition only points out how open and undefined our fetish is, even if on the surface it is pretty basic. What does Spandex do for you as a fetish material? Tell us in the comments. For more images of superheroes in spandex, visit our 20 Iconic Images of Superhero Fetish or visit our Tumblr.
About our contributor iFitz
Hello everyone, very excited and happy to be part of the team and the community. I just moved to Toronto to pursue a masters in film and sociology (the former being my major passion). I’m 28 and really excited to be seeing this superhero fetish community develop. You can read a lot more in the story I previously wrote, but my fetish also includes wetsuits, athletic gear (spandex obviously) and shoes, mostly athletic shoes. I’m a little shy but online I’m game for chat and e-mails so drop me a line at ifitz@howtokillasuperhero.net